Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Character



There are many different people in the world and as many people as are out there I realize there are at least that many opinions. I say this because I realize that my opinion is, far too often, unpopular. I choose to believe that this is because I have a moral character that regards ethics as a bare minimum and strive to achieve a goal far higher than simply allowable. Of course, since this is my blog, this is where I have the opportunity to share my opinion.


I live on a pretty busy street and it seems like I see a police officer driving past my house daily. I hear sirens at least twice a week and sometimes they drive by my house with the sirens blaring and lights flashing. It has occurred to me on many different occasions, as those who know me understand, that people tend to dislike police officers. The times you typically see police officers is generally the worst part of your day. You have a traffic collision, you get a ticket, someone hits you, etc. Police officers are great for everyone until they are dealing with you. I have no delusions that I will change anyone's mind about this, however, I would like to take a moment to change your perspective a little. 


The entire day has been horrible. The rain hasn't stopped until just moments ago when it finally slowed to a drizzle, and it's been raining for at least a week straight. It's still only forty-five degrees Fahrenheit and you forgot your umbrella. You're driving down the street on your way to lunch, driving the car you always drive. It's not the newest model, but at least it's yours. The light turns red. Again. It seems like every light is changing just to slow you down. It's been a long day with plenty of frustrations for everyone and just to add on to it all, you are late to lunch. As you are finally seeing a glimmer of hope as you turn the corner, just blocks from the restaurant, the day gets worse. There are red and blue lights flashing somewhere and you can hear the sirens. You look in the mirror as a police car flies up behind you. "Don't stop me, I didn't do anything", you think as you pull to the right side of the road and wait. The police car stops behind you, lights still flashing and the siren stops. Great. Just another thing to add to the irritations of the day. The police officer steps out of the car, just yards behind yours, and approaches your door. You can see his face in the mirror as he gets closer to you. He has a badge on his chest and a gun on his hip. He's wearing a pair of sunglasses on his face and it almost looks like he's smirking.

I'll pause the scenario here. Think about the vehicle you drive, the town you live in, and the driving habits you have developed. These are just a few of the contributing factors. What could you have done to be stopped? What could be wrong with your car? There are thousands of traffic laws that change from city to city, state to state, even country to country. Here in the United States, we are very fortunate that there are many laws that may be a violation in one state that are acceptable in our home state, and because this is the case, there are many states that recognize that you may not be able to comply and will allow the violation through their state. Even though you might be stopped multiple times. 

Now, I would like to take a moment to address the statement that many people make and even believe. "I didn't do anything wrong." It has come to my attention that the United States has a pretty powerful Constitution (even if it doesn't seem to exist in current times) that protects the peoples' rights. One of those rights, covered in the fourth amendment, is protection "against unreasonable searches and seizures". This includes traffic stops. Traffic stops are a "seizure" of sorts. Keep in mind that the fourth amendment protects against unreasonable seizure, not any seizure. In order to initiate a traffic stop, law enforcement officers must have a reason to stop the vehicle. This may be a traffic infraction, equipment violation, or perhaps your vehicle looks like a vehicle that was identified in a crime that has occurred somewhere else in the city. These are just a few reasons you could be stopped, and are typically the most common reasons. 

Now, if we go back to the scenario, what is it that you might have done wrong? 

"Good afternoon. My name is Officer Friendly with the Municipal Police department. The reason I have stopped you today is because you have a brake light out on the drivers' side of your vehicle."

Are you relieved? Perhaps angry? Maybe you are dumbfounded?

"You stopped me for a brake light being out? Don't you have something better to do with your time? Why don't you go stop some real crime? We have a real drug problem here! Why don't you go arrest a drug dealer?"

The conversation would probably proceed something like this:

"I understand that you're upset. If I could just see your drivers' license, I'll have you on your way momentarily."

Of course you comply. He did say that he would have you on your way soon. You hand him your license and he steps back to his vehicle. He returns to your door just a minute later and hands you your drivers' license. 

"I'm just going to give you a verbal warning. Just get the brake light fixed later. Drive safely."

At this point he returns to his car and the lights turn off. You continue to lunch and never see that officer again. 

I base this conversation on personal experience. Think about it for a minute though. What is the first thing they teach you to do before you get into the car at drivers education? They tell you to check your fluids and walk around your vehicle to look the vehicle over. How many of us actually check to see if our lights are functioning? How many of us can actually check our brake lights? I don't usually have a second person around to push the brake so that I can make sure that the light is functioning. 

When I look back on the situation, and understanding that the fourth amendment protects us from unreasonable seizure, I now understand that anytime a law enforcement officer stops me, they are required to have a reason. Someone has to have violated the law. Maybe I wasn't the one who violated the law, or maybe I didn't know I violated the law. Perhaps I get a verbal or a written warning and I am told to fix my light. Now to change perspective a little. If a law enforcement officer has a reason to stop you and gives you a warning (written or verbal), then they have a reason to stop you, and they chose not to cite you for the violation. This is the thought that crossed my mind. Anytime an officer stops someone and gives them a warning, they are showing mercy. 

So many of us take everyday occurrences for granted. We think we deserve everything we get. This example is a good example of how we don't always receive what we deserve. And sometimes that's a good thing. This is just one of the many examples of things we take for granted. Think about the things in your life that you have been given that you didn't deserve. Think about the things you didn't get, but maybe you did deserve. Especially if you live in the United States. 

We have electricity as often as we want. If you want something, go buy it. Don't have enough money? Get a second job. We may not have a perfect country, but we have it pretty good. There are many options that we have that most of the world doesn't even hope for.
We haven't had to deal with a war on our own soil since the Civil War, and yet we have been fighting across the world since the conception of the United States. Forget about the fact that many of us don't understand why we are fighting wars and be thankful that we haven't had to fight anyone here. 

It is almost Thanksgiving, so I suppose in that spirit I urge you to consider your life and be thankful for what you have. Don't complain today. Take a full twenty-four hours to keep your complaints to yourself, because someone has it worse. 


Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Provide for the common defense

“...provide for the common defense,...”

This document lays out the need to be able to fight wars, but pay attention to how they said it! These men were not war-mongers. At the time that this was written these same men were just beginning a war against Great Britain. Great Britain at that time was a world power. They had one of the greatest armies and navies in the world. They were stronger than most of the world. The thirteen colonies fought against an established world power and won. That took a lot of guts and came at a high price for both nations. Thousands died in battle and thousands more as a result of illness. Some of the men who contributed to the Constitution fought in the American Revolutionary war. George Washington was a general who led men into combat and watched his men suffer through illnesses. He himself had bullet holes in his coat that could only be explained as the hand of God (see “The Bulletproof George Washington” by David Barton). I find it easy to suggest that George Washington of all people despised war as much as anyone could, but understood its unfortunate necessity in order to provide for a common defense. This line also suggested a promise that since these men claimed this country from Great Britain, they would take on the responsibility of defending its people.

Monday, March 31, 2014

Insure Domestic Tranquility...

“...insure domestic Tranquility,...”

I had to look up the word “Tranquility”, because I was not entirely sure I understood the intent behind the words in the Constitution. I have always thought of tranquility as a peaceful rest, like a Sunday afternoon after church (I had a traditional Christian family). I remember, as a kid my mother used to read books to my siblings and I before bed. One of them was Laura Ingalls Wilder’s “Little house on the Prairie”. In the book there was a part that talked about the (seemingly) extremes that they would go to to follow the commandment “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy” Exodus 20:8 NKJV (http://bible.com/114/exo.20.8.nkjv). In the book, they would make their meals on Saturday and absolutely NO work was done on Sunday. That’s how I used to feel about “tranquility”. A peaceful Sunday afternoon that was spent almost lazily around the house chatting and chuckling happily.

tran·quil·li·ty
noun \tran-ˈkwi-lə-tē, traŋ-\
Definition of TRANQUILLITY
:  the quality or state of being tranquil <the tranquillity of the quiet countryside>

After looking this word up on Merriam-Webster’s dictionary online, I was given an entirely different perspective. The example is a quiet countryside. I can only speculate about the various images that anyone else imagines when they read that example, but words can not describe the beauty I see in that part of the Constitution. The founding fathers were worn out, tired of war, tired of debates, and all they wanted for themselves and for everyone else, was a nice peaceful rest. They wanted their nation to have the luxury of domestic tranquility. They understood that it would be necessary to fight wars in the future, but they wished so strongly to keep peace in the priorities of our nation, that they put Tranquility in the very foundation of the country.

Establish Justice...

“...establish Justice,…”

Our founding fathers believed in the concept of justice. They believed in it enough that they were intent on establishing a level playing field for every single person in the US. They wanted to establish a system that would eliminate the injustices that they had suffered and give every single individual, citizen or not, an opportunity to receive the justice that they deserved.

To form a more perfect union..

“...in Order to form a more perfect Union,…”

They believed that this union of thirteen colonies had become so efficient and effective that it was near perfect. They believed that it was, in fact, the unity that made the union near perfect. Their goal in writing this Constitution was in fact to make the union more perfect by making it united in a common government that would promise protection of all of its colonies.

We the People

“We the People of the United States,…”



I think that it is very important to point out the capitalization in the Constitution. Our founding fathers were by no means illiterate. They were very capable of writing correctly. They chose to capitalize certain words throughout the Constitution in order to emphasize the importance of those words and the concepts behind them. We the People; the representatives chosen by the people in order to represent those same people in their beliefs and concerns and in order to address the beliefs and concerns of all of those who live in this great nation in the founding of this great document that will govern thousands, millions, and perhaps even billions in the future. These fifty-four representatives had one of the most important jobs in the history of the planet and they took it very seriously and they accomplished their objective with the concerns of every single constituent in the forefront of their minds. They selflessly volunteered in order to prevent the people from being taxed and to establish a government that would not tyrannize its people as their previous government had oppressed them.

Have we forgotten the concept of "We the People"? Do we, the United States, not govern ourselves? Are we more subject to our Elected leaders than they are to us? What is it about "We the People" that is so confusing? It is about time that We took control of our government and let our elected officials know that they are to keep OUR interests at the forefront of their minds. This political game needs to stop. We need some officials who are not afraid to offend EVERYONE who disagrees with their constituents beliefs. The elected officials are in their respective offices to support the goals of the people. NOT for self gain.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Ready?

I am a bit of a nerd when it comes to survival. I think that it is important to be able to survive in any given circumstance because if you can't survive, then the only option is not to survive. This might seem a little obvious to most readers, however, there are a great many of you who haven't considered the fact that you survive every single day. Sure, you're still alive, but who actually considered that you have to survive every day to remain that way? You use survival skills every day without ever realizing it. The problem with today's world (especially in America) is that we not only survive, but we have the ability to thrive and have become so good at it that we take pride in how well we thrive.

I am sick of looking at my house and seeing piles of stuff everywhere. It doesn't matter if it is organized, it's still piles of stuff. I have four or five sets of cups, plates, silverware, etc. I don't use more than one fork at a time, so why do I have twelve forks? Having twelve forks just lets the dishes pile up for longer. (I don't do dishes.)

Getting back to the basics is long overdue. I have a pile of dishes in my sink right now (I told you I don't do dishes) and I am really not sure what to do with them. I think I might actually have to wash them. I had this thought, as I was staring at this mountain (which seems bigger than it really is, I'm sure). If I just had one fork, I would have to wash it every time I wanted to use it, or after I used it so it would be clean, but I would not have a pile of dishes in my sink, because I would have to keep them clean to eat. Why do I have twelve forks!?

The other side to this; besides having too many dishes, I also have too many... everything... I don't need sixteen t-shirts. I only wear eight of them anyways. And so on and so on with pretty much all of the mundane things that I have (not laptops or TV's, I only have one of those types of things).

Then finally, there's moving. Almost everyone has moved at some point in their life. I just got done helping someone else move. I am so glad that I was able to help them move. I don't ever want to move that much stuff from one house to another. I don't even use half of the things I have. I want to be able to pick up a couple of bags and move. Two to three bags and moving is over. Obviously, this is an extreme and crazy idea in today's culture. My ultimate goal is even crazier: Be able to move with the clothes on my back.

We need to get back to the basics.

Be ready.

“Then those in Judea must flee to the hills. A person out on the deck of a roof must not go down into the house to pack. A person out in the field must not return even to get a coat. (Matthew 24:16-18 NLT)

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Now I get it! Or...not?

Hello, Bloggers!

Long time, no type... I am struggling through the intro! So,  I suppose it is time for me to start writing again. I guess that I needed to write more than I realized. I find that it can be quite therapeutic and ranting a little every now and again helps to de-stress life. Besides, what is life without a little ranting and raving? We would have a lot of very bland personalities!

I have finally come to the realization that no two people on this earth speak the same language. Sure, we may call it "English" or "Spanish" or even "French" or whatever the common name is for the general syllables and letters that we pronounce, but we have so many misunderstandings on a regular basis. This is because many of the words that we use quite commonly are words that we learned the meaning of by inferred methods which is a logical instinct we have that helps us to learn  the meanings of words before we have any understanding of words at all. In other words, how babies learn to speak. Therein lies the problem with the languages we speak. Each word has a unique meaning and many, many, words have a secondary, third or even fourth or more meaning that does not conform to the standard. Not to mention all of the slang words that we (the human race) just made up and added to the dictionary so that we would have a word that rhymes with orange. That's how we got the word "Xurang", which means "word that rhymes with orange and sounds cool". I digress...

All of this to say; Guys don't understand every word that another guys is saying, but they understand the concept and the general idea. Guys understand every single word that a girl says, but can not seem to digest the concept or the general idea. (Sorry, I have not yet figured out what girls understand)

I have been married for a few years and I thought that I understood this concept when I got married. How naive. I explained to my new wife that this was a problem in many relationships and asked her to understand that this was something that we could work through by being very deliberate about the words that we used. She agreed and we enjoyed our brilliant success.

We weren't speaking the same language.